Above all, be the Heroine of your life, not the victim.

Nora Ephron

Its never about your resources, its about your resourcefulness

Tony Robbins

You take your life into your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.

Erica Jong

The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the economy, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.

Albert Ellis